“Why do we write? A chorus erupts. Because we cannot simply live.”
~Patti Smith, Devotion (2017:93)
I am always looking for opportunities to collaborate with and contribute to on- and offline publications that reflect my vision for a more equitable and meaningful world. In the spirit of this, I am excited to announce my newest initiatives:
- Expert contributor to YourTango – the leading online magazine dedicated to love and relationships
- Published author for The Conversation and a contributing writer for The Chorus and Be-Yourself
- Contributing author at Hello, Love
- Accepted as a member of the International Society of Professional Females
“It wasn’t a dramatic blow-up that almost crushed my relationship, it was…” These tips may help you survive the Covid relationship rollercoaster:
- Slow your response time…
- Don’t interpret your partner’s behaviour…
- Map out your communication plan…
Despite living in a sex-obsessed society, we rarely talk about our erotic lives in ways that foster meaningful intimacy…
Read my new article via The Conversation to explore how we may establish a sense of closeness, even from a distance.
Even from the safety of my own home, I have travelled to Spain!
Check out my feature interview in Ara, Spain’s leading newspaper in the Catalan language!
It explores different angles of Bumble feminism, on the dating app and the boss lifestyle brand that’s made CEO Whitney Wolfe Herd the youngest self-made female billionaire.
Listen up to “Sex Work in the City” with the fabulous podcast team at Cheating On Fear
In this new podcast, I speak to my research into sex work, the invisible labour that many woman have to endure by virtue of their gender, how the patriarchy hurts everyone, and how a common tactic of conflating something horrible with something potentially innocuous can lead to a divisive battle, even when everyone is trying to “do the right thing.”
What’s on the agenda for today? Digital Gender Dynamics via Zoom
My colleague, Shauna Burke, and I were invited onto tvo’s The Agenda to talk more about our research into the ways our new Zoom-dominated lives may be affecting and/or reflecting gender inequality. You can catch the entire episode here and join in the conversation via Twitter – it’s bumpin’!
Tune into & turn up my podcast with Cheating on Fear
During our convo, we chat about my upcoming #Bumble book, sexuality, online gender dynamics and more. Give us a listen and let me know what you think about our different perspectives and the way we put this awesome podcast to werk.
Money, Agency, and Self-Care among Cisgender and Trans People in Sex Work
Check out my new publication with three amazing colleagues who took part in a collective study about sex work, health and social services in the Kitchener-Waterloo region. It explores how cis and transgender people in sex work experience different issues in relation to money, agency and self care. This is a novel contribution to the research literature that I am proud of.
Interview: The gender dynamics that play out on Zoom
My colleague, Shauna Burke, and I teamed up with 570 News to chat about the article we published regarding how men’s and women’s behaviours differ on the digital meeting platform, Zoom. In case you missed it, we’ve provided the audio below, so you can listen in and send us your thoughts about the patterns you have (not) noticed during online conversations. Click below and enjoy!
On Zoom, men don’t like feeling watched & judged, but women are used to it
In my new post via The Conversation, my colleague and I use our combined observations of hundreds of Zoom meetings and scholarly insights from the fields of anthropology and psychology to explore how gender dynamics play out on Zoom and the transformative impact of digital platforms on our work environments and identities.
Read more about why we think men use formal backgrounds more than women and what implications this interesting online trend has.
Revisiting the fears of Covid-19: What was life like six months ago?
Back in May, at the height of the pandemic, I penned my feelings about our drastic change in routine and the uneasiness brought with it. I chatted about privilege, Shoppers Drug Mart and the ways we’ve become totally distanced – not just physically – from one another.
Now that the numbers are rising again, I wanted to revisit this piece and the feelings contained within in. Are we headed towards another lockdown and, with it, the exhaustive discomfort of navigating a new normal we all hate? Read and respond via the beyourself online platform.
My blog about Big Little Lies has made an appearance on The Medium.
Read about female friendship, competition & the ways TV can reflect our versions of ourselves – even when they tote bleach blonde dos and murderous plots.
Equity Champion: Treena Orchard
During the month of October 2020, Western University’s Faculty Association published their newest edition of faculty times. Within the magazine, they featured yours truly as the university’s Equity Champion, so I had the opportunity to talk about what that means to me and which role(s) it plays in my life.
Download & read the application here and let’s chat human rights and the way our struggle to access and uphold equity (re)shapes our lives.
Learn about the “Quaranfling”
We recorded the whole thing, so you can tag along our talking venture and provide feedback on how your #pandemic #dating is going. Take a listen and let me know what you think & if you have any tips for those looking for #love from under their masks and behind their computers.
Check out my latest article, “7 Reasons Dating Younger Men is a Smart Choice” via Your Tango
It’s time to throw away the tired cougar stereotypes that used to dominate narratives surrounding women who are romantically linked to a handsome, younger man (or men plural). From the sexy fun to the unique sense of confidence they exude, read about why I enjoy dating men who are 10-15 years than me.
May my new story inspire you to broaden your dating horizons, and age gap, should you be looking for love, sex or something else.
Publication in Be-Yourself-A-Medium Magazine
I transformed last week’s blog into a publication on Be-Yourself-A-Medium Magazine. This reflexive, tender piece reviews how an unassuming room- the bathroom- can be a space of solace and healing.
Thanks to Covid-19 and the need to isolate, to the level of a bubble, finding accessible places to ground ourselves is vital! Let me know how your relationships with everyday spaces has changed too. Remember, we’re all in this together…but just separately.
I was so excited to be featured by #forwomenwhoroar. This well-respected, fem-forward publication is amplifying the voices of women who refuse to go quietly into the night.
Orchard, T. (Feb. 10, 2020). “Valentine’s Day: Gen Z avoid committed relationships, prefer ‘casual things’”, The Conversation Canada: Academic Rigour, Journalistic Flair, https://theconversation.com/valentines-day-gen-z-avoids-committed-relationships-prefers-casual-hookups-130936
Orchard, T. (Sept. 30, 2019). Bumble article comments indicate the rise of a far-right feminist-backlash, The Conversation Canada: Academic Rigour, Journalistic Flair. https://theconversation.com/bumble-article-comments-indicate-the-rise-of-a-far-right-feminist-backlash-121652
Orchard, T. (2019, Aug. 15). On the Bumble Dating app, it’s the woman who decides. But are men ready for this?. https://theconversation.com/amour-et-desir-sur-internet-les-hommes-ne-sont-pas-prets-a-se-faire-draguer-par-les-femmes-121395
(2019, July 28). Love, lust and digital dating: Men on the Bumble dating app aren’t ready for the Queen bee, Invited contribution to The Conversation Canada: Academic Rigour, Journalistic Flair. https://theconversation.com/love-lust-and-digital-dating-men-on-the-bumble-dating-app-arent-ready-for-the-queen-bee-120796.
Interviewed by Chris dela Torre of the Canadian Broadcasting Corporation show, The Afternoon Drive (February 11, 2020). https://www.cbc.ca/listen/live-radio/1-80-afternoon-drive/clip/15760439-gen-z-hookup-culture
Featured guest on Sittin’ with Sallie, a Shaw Cable talk show in Kenora, Ontario (Channel 10). We discussed my Bumble dating app research and forthcoming book (June 4, 2019). YouTube: https://youtu.be/hsLcR-ijA_U
Featured in a Front Page story by Randy Richmond of the London Free Press ‘Western researcher shares dating app experience’ https://lfpress.com/life/relationships/western-researcher-shares-dating-app-experience (April 28, 2019)
Featured in story by Randy Richmond of the London Free Press ‘Is publicly naming sex buyers wise or reckless?‘ by Dale Carruthers https://lfpress.com/news/local-news/lfp-longform-is-publicly-naming-sex-buyers-wise-or-reckless (March 8, 2019)
Interviewed by Taniya Spoila of the Western Gazette and featured in the story ‘Myth: Girls Don’t Masturbate‘ https://westerngazette.ca/culture/myth-girls-don-t-masturbate/article_53f28b68-2f15-11e9-9664-6ff49b961a4f.html (February 14, 2019).
Interviewed by Eric Collins about my Bumble dating app research and book for the Health, Illness & Recovery show at 9.49, Western University radio (November 26, 2018).
- https://soundcloud.com/chrwradio/health-illness-recovery-ep-9-3 (Part 1)
- https://soundcloud.com/chrwradio/health-illness-recovery-ep-9-2 (Part 2)
Interviewed by and featured in a story by Sydney Bordinon about my Bumble book and dating in the 21st century for 106.9 The X FM news, entitled: ‘Are Dating Apps Killing Romance? https://www.cfrlradio.com/syn/202/75097/75097/ (September 16, 2018).
Interviewed by Grace To of the Western Gazette and featured in the story “Exploring the STI Testing Stigma” https://www.westerngazette.ca/culture/exploring-the-sti-testing-stigma/article_d41c2efc-9ae3-11e6-9d46-035f4b18a0b6.html (February 14, 2018).
Interviewed by Kristen Lee of the Western Gazette and featured in the story “What’s it like to be a Sex Worker on Valentine’s Day?” (February 14, 2018) https://www.westerngazette.ca/culture/what-it-s-like-to-be-a-sex-worker-on/article_3b8df0ce-0a06-11e8-9f97-c7d38de9aae4.html